Transcript
[0:00] Let's hear
what you've written.
[0:02] "I'm frightened of Donald Trump
[0:05] because he could create
concentration camps."
[0:09] "He could start"--
[0:10] You're not afraid of him
because he "could."
[0:13] When you're writing these Worksheets,
you know, he "could"--
[0:17] That doesn't--
[0:18] I'm afraid he "will"--
[0:21] Yeah.
"I'm afraid he will"--
[0:23] "I'm afraid
he will start a nuclear war."
[0:27] "I'm afraid
he will ruin the environment
[0:29] for my son
and future generations."
[0:33] "I want Donald Trump
to not be president,
[0:36] to disappear,
[0:38] to not be on the way
to ruining our country,
[0:42] or at least to get a better,
kinder set of cabinet members."
[0:48] "Donald Trump
shouldn't be president,
[0:51] should step down,
[0:53] and offer the space
to Hillary Clinton,
[0:56] (audience laughs)
[0:58] or even another
Republican candidate,
[1:01] shouldn't say and do racist, sexist,
ableist, homophobic and xenophobic things."
[1:10] "I need Donald Trump
to disappear,
[1:14] step aside,
[1:16] die,
[1:18] (audience laughs)
[1:20] or wake the f up."
[1:24] "Donald Trump
and his supporters
[1:27] are possibly the bringers
of internment camps,
[1:31] concentration camps
or even Armageddon."
[1:34] And let's say "will,"
[1:38] -rather than "would possibly."
-OK.
[1:40] Because we're putting
our fears on paper.
[1:45] Yeah.
[1:47] "Will bring"--
[1:48] Your same experience will happen.
[1:50] But if you put yourself in the position
where it's really happening,
[1:56] you know, it really is so.
When you're doing inquiry,
[1:59] then, "possibly" isn't going
to take you as far as it's happening,
[2:06] because this is hypothetical.
[2:09] "I don't ever wanna
experience the fear and anxiety
[2:12] that Trump and his supporters
have caused me, ever again."
[2:17] OK. So, let's start
at the top.
[2:19] "I'm frightened
of Donald Trump
[2:22] because he will create
concentration camps."
[2:26] So, Donald Trump is going
to create concentration camps.
[2:33] Is it true?
[2:35] So, several of you, I heard that,
you know, "internment camps"--
[2:39] I heard several of you,
when we were meditating out loud yesterday.
[2:45] "He is going to create
concentration camps."
[2:51] So, can you absolutely
know that it is true
[2:56] he's going to create
concentration camps?
[2:59] No. No.
[3:00] OK. Can anyone here
absolutely know
[3:05] that that's
what he's going to do?
[3:09] OK. So, just feel that
for a moment.
[3:12] It's as though we think
if we don't fear it,
[3:16] we can't do anything
about it to stop it.
[3:22] Close your eyes and notice
what happens internally.
[3:28] Notice future images
when you think the thought,
[3:33] "He will create
concentration camps."
[3:37] Now, think of it as a movie.
Because it is.
[3:40] What do you see?
It's that simple.
[3:43] What do you see?
[3:47] OK. Now notice
how all those images of the future,
[3:51] notice how everything
you've said, seen and heard here
[3:55] are only
images of the past.
[4:03] See it?
You're carrying them forward.
[4:06] And, for most of you,
they're completely borrowed.
[4:10] You weren't even there.
[4:12] And notice the emotions,
[4:14] because you can see you there,
you can see your children there,
[4:17] you can see military there,
whatever it is you see there,
[4:22] just give it a moment,
give it some respect,
[4:24] look at it.
This is the ego.
[4:27] Know it well.
[4:30] Those aren't people.
[4:34] That's not Trump.
[4:36] It's a movie.
We're like children.
[4:39] So, now, who would you be
without your story? Open your eyes.
[4:44] Other than what you're thinking
and believing, are you OK?
[4:49] Now, go back to how you react
when you believe the thought.
[4:52] This is obliterated.
[4:55] So, you're witnessing
all the evil in the world.
[5:01] Is it in Trump
or is it in you?
[5:08] I will create
concentration camps.
[5:11] Yeah, you just did.
[5:14] Mmm--
[5:15] There is the proof on paper.
[5:18] Yeah.
[5:18] And notice how much time
you spend in that, that movie--
[5:22] "creating-concentration-camps,"
"creating-concentration-camps."
[5:26] As though, if it did happen,
that's not enough.
[5:29] You have to create-it-now,
create-it-now!
[5:32] You know, if it's gonna happen,
have a good life until then.
[5:37] You know, who knows?
It may never happen.
[5:39] And you've lived
on a concentration camp.
[5:42] It seems, like, it's gonna happen!
Just before you die.
[5:47] (audience laughs)
[5:50] So, feel what's holding you.
[5:52] And notice the breath.
It's free!
[5:56] You don't even notice it
when you're in your concentration camp.
[6:01] The gifts, the light, the--
[6:11] "He will create
concentration camps."
[6:13] Can you find
a turnaround?
[6:16] He will not create
concentration camps.
[6:20] OK. So, let's do some popcorn, here.
"He will not create"--
[6:23] He won't create
concentration camps
[6:27] because
I'll stop paying taxes.
[6:30] Now, we're stepping
into a little wisdom.
[6:34] Those things take money.
[6:36] That's a mind opener.
[6:39] And that's
what I'm inviting you to.
[6:41] Trump will not create
concentration camps.
[6:45] Yes.
[6:46] In my experience,
[6:47] I've never heard him say
he's going to put every American
[6:49] in a concentration camp.
[6:51] Or any Americans?
[6:53] Any Americans.
[6:54] Yeah.
[6:55] So, there's one.
[6:56] And also,
if he's anything like me,
[6:59] I say I'm going to do a lot of things
and sometimes I do, and sometimes I don't.
[7:03] (audience laughs)
[7:04] See, she's in her Work.
[7:06] She really--
[7:08] Feel the laughter
that you know yourselves.
[7:11] OK. So, that is,
you know--
[7:15] Thank you.
Those last two were just so delicious.
[7:19] So, Trump will not create
concentration camps.
[7:21] You feel empty?
[7:24] Kathlyn.
[7:25] Trump will create
liberation camps.
[7:28] So, tell us about that one.
[7:30] Where does your mind go,
"liberation camps"?
[7:32] Just--
[7:34] It's such a stressful storyline
that people, and myself included,
[7:39] I can only (inaudible)
about me, but--
[7:42] it's inspired me to think in ways
that I've never thought before.
[7:46] So--
[7:47] Let's move to the next one.
[7:48] "He will start
a nuclear war."
[7:53] Is it true?
[7:54] Can you really know that it's true
that he will start a nuclear war?
[8:00] I can't be
absolutely certain, no.
[8:03] And notice what happens
to your life when you believe the thought,
[8:08] "He'll start
a nuclear war."
[8:10] It's the images
from the past, again,
[8:12] the little kid
running in Japan.
[8:14] I think many of us
have seen that picture
[8:16] when the bomb dropped.
[8:19] You know,
I feel sick to my stomach.
[8:21] I imagine
everybody being sick.
[8:25] Who's still alive?
[8:26] There's a movie
I saw a long time ago
[8:30] about a nuclear war,
[8:33] and it's just
living hell, you know?
[8:35] So, that image,
[8:37] those are the images that happen
when you think the thought,
[8:39] "He will start
a nuclear war."
[8:41] Let's turn it around, "I will"--
[8:44] "I will start
a nuclear war--
[8:47] --in my head,"
if I'm not aware
[8:50] of the difference between reality
and fantasy in the moment.
[9:00] Yeah.
[9:02] So, "He'll start a nuclear war."
Turn it around,
[9:04] "He won't start
a nuclear war."
[9:06] "He will not start
a nuclear war."
[9:08] Where can your mind go that would match
that, "He will not start a nuclear war"?
[9:12] Jerry.
[9:14] Right here.
[9:20] Well, he's all about business
[9:22] and that would be
too disruptive to business.
[9:23] (audience laughs)
[9:31] It's a good thing he owns
a lot of hotels around the world.
[9:35] (laughs)
[9:39] You know, what Jerry said
is very practical and--
[9:47] very smart
when you consider it.
[9:49] Something to contemplate.
[9:50] Just noticing, noticing.
[9:53] Yes.
[9:54] "He will start a nuclear wave
of consciousness in our world."
[10:01] Mmm--
[10:02] (audience laughs)
[10:05] Yes.
[10:07] "He will not start a nuclear war
because he loves his children."
[10:12] Mmm--
Beautiful.
[10:14] The awareness of wisdom
is available when we're out of fear.
[10:17] Fear takes up all the space,
[10:20] that space junk.
[10:21] Artificial intelligence
taking up all the wisdom.
[10:29] "He will not start
a nuclear war
[10:31] because those today in power
already started it."
[10:36] (audience laughs)
[10:43] Well, why aren't you laughing?
[10:44] (audience laughs)
[10:51] He appears, from what he says,
to have a very hands-off management style.
[10:55] And, you know, there's a lot of people
in the background in the military
[10:59] that probably think
it's not a good idea.
[11:01] And he's relying a lot on,
from what he says, their expertise.
[11:06] So, "He will start a nuclear war,"
turn it around.
[11:10] I just got something
[11:12] So, "nuclear,"
if you read it differently,
[11:15] it's "newclear."
[11:17] Ooh!
[11:20] "He will ruin the environment
for future generations."
[11:28] Is it true?
[11:30] "He will ruin the environment
for my son and future generations."
[11:34] Mmm--
[11:36] I will ruin the environment
for my son and future generations.
[11:40] Yeah, in your head,
[11:42] before it even happens,
should it even happen,
[11:46] it's already ruined.
[11:47] Yeah.
[11:50] And who ruined it?
[11:52] Was it him or you, in that moment,
when you see it that way?
[11:56] And that's the cause
of your emotions, your depression,
[12:00] your anxiety.
[12:05] So, he will not ruin
the environment for future generations.
[12:10] I've actually thought
[12:12] he could, sort of,
save the environment, um,
[12:17] because
so many of us will--
[12:20] double and triple our efforts--
[12:25] to stop polluting and--
[12:28] be more mindful
[12:32] of the environment.
[12:33] And, also,
we may need to see
[12:36] skies like they have in China,
before we get it.
[12:44] So much fear.
[12:47] So much confusion.
[12:49] Yeah.
[12:51] You've written,
"I don't want Trump to be president."
[12:55] Is it true?
[13:00] (audience laughs)
[13:07] Yeah, it's true.
It's still true.
[13:10] (audience laughs)
[13:12] OK, that's like saying
you don't want democracy.
[13:19] (audience laughs)
[13:21] I feel like
I'm bringing bad news, here.
[13:24] (audience laughs)
[13:32] You don't want Trump
to be president.
[13:35] Go back to when
you first realized that--
[13:42] the map all turned red.
[13:46] (audience laughs)
[13:53] (audience laughs)
[13:58] It looked like blood to me.
[14:00] (audience laughs)
[14:04] Pure imagination.
[14:06] (audience laughs)
[14:07] I mean, it's like,
[14:09] the screen, on the screen,
on the screen, on the screen.
[14:16] Who would you be
without the thought,
[14:18] "I don't want Trump
to be president"?
[14:26] Often when I do The Work,
I think I'd be
[14:29] what I was the moment
before the thought came.
[14:32] Mm-hmm--
[14:36] Who would you be,
listening to the news,
[14:38] without the thought,
"I don't want Trump to be president"?
[14:43] I couldn't bear
to get the news.
[14:45] So, I went to sleep.
[14:47] And I told
my husband and son,
[14:50] I asked 'em to please
wake me up if she won,
[14:54] but don't wake me up
if she didn't.
[14:56] And, so, I woke up in the morning,
I remembered that they hadn't woken me up.
[15:01] (audience and Katie laugh)
[15:07] And it was like--
[15:09] (audience laughs)
[15:12] And it just--
[15:13] I felt so heavy,
walking to the bathroom
[15:16] to brush my teeth.
[15:18] Arrgghhh---
[15:24] But it was still the same bathroom,
and the same toothbrush--
[15:27] And, you know,
I was just brushing my teeth
[15:29] and I did realize that--
[15:33] yeah, nothing really changed.
[15:37] Not in that moment.
[15:42] We're still here.
[15:44] So, other than
what you were thinking and believing,
[15:49] nothing changed.
[15:53] "I don't want Trump to be president,"
turn it around, "I don't want me"--
[15:57] "I don't want me
to be president."
[15:59] Yeah, that's for sure.
[16:01] (audience laughs)
[16:05] Mmm--
[16:08] Kind of gone
with Christie's Work, yesterday,
[16:10] "God is president."
[16:12] You always say, "Who needs God,
when we have your opinion?"
[16:17] We don't need my opinion.
[16:19] It's an opinion that put, kind of like,
this blanket over the world that morning.
[16:26] -Mm-hmm.
-Yeah.
[16:29] Alan Watts, the teacher,
[16:31] he says that everything's
a continuation of the Big Bang.
[16:34] And that gives me a lot of comfort
'cause I think that is true.
[16:40] Mm-hmm--
[16:41] That is not
a stressful thought and so,
[16:44] Trump got elected when--
[16:47] when the whole thing
came into being.
[16:50] This whole "it."
[16:53] So that's a timeless state.
[16:56] -Yeah.
-Mm-hmm.
[16:58] So, "I want Trump to disappear,
[17:01] to get better,
kinder cabinet members."
[17:05] So, "I want me"--
[17:08] to disappear.
[17:09] Yeah, "My thoughts,
my thinking,
[17:12] that's crazy,
out of time,
[17:16] to disappear."
[17:19] And continue,
"to get better"--
[17:22] --better, kinder,
set of cabinet members."
[17:25] Yes.
[17:26] So, Worksheet on those
cabinet members.
[17:31] Because they're not ever gonna
be kinder and less of a threat
[17:34] until you do a Worksheet
or have some kind of major epiphany.
[17:39] I can almost feel my ego,
like, squirming, like this creature
[17:45] whining to stay alive,
because I, it's like, "But, but, but"--
[17:49] You know?
[17:50] I just read some news from Breitbart News
about how all the hate crimes are fake news.
[17:57] And it just--
[18:00] It brings this all back.
[18:02] And then you get upset.
[18:04] Yeah.
[18:05] -Because you don't believe it.
-Right.
[18:07] OK. So, you don't believe it.
[18:10] You're safe.
[18:11] But when you imagine
how it's gonna affect us,
[18:17] it's a bit arrogant
[18:19] to think that we don't know
at least as much as you know.
[18:24] I mean,
you're thinking for us.
[18:26] And so, for some of us,
that kind of arrogance is our suffering.
[18:32] Yeah. I'm being president.
[18:36] Good one.
[18:39] I don't wanna be president.
[18:44] Yeah.
[18:45] "He shouldn't be president,
he should step down
[18:48] and offer the job
to someone else."
[18:51] Yeah.
[18:52] So, turn it around,
"I shouldn't"--
[18:54] I shouldn't be president.
[18:56] Yeah, you're running the Cabinet,
you're running the world,
[18:58] you're running
who should be president,
[19:00] you're running--
[19:02] Yeah.
[19:02] And it hurts.
[19:04] It's a lot. It's a burden
that's not yours, but is yours.
[19:08] "I shouldn't be president,
I should"--
[19:11] I should step down,
offer the space to Hillary--
[19:14] No, just offer the space--
[19:16] Or anyone else.
[19:17] Offer the space
to the one that's got it, Trump.
[19:21] Offer the space
to Trump, yeah.
[19:23] Soon-to-be president Trump.
[19:27] President-elect Trump.
[19:30] I mean, you may as well
offer it to him, it's his.
[19:34] You're just
catching up with reality.
[19:37] (audience laughs)
[19:41] I almost didn't do this,
[19:43] as several people
have come up to me, like,
[19:45] "Are you gonna do Trump?,
Are you gonna do Trump?",
[19:46] like, they can't wait.
[19:48] And several also--
A couple said,
[19:50] "I didn't want to do Trump
'cause I wanna keep hating him."
[19:53] (laughter)
[19:54] Mm-hmm.
[19:55] Yes, there's a lot of power in that.
In that I-know mind.
[20:00] It's like,
"Whoa, I'm right on this one!"
[20:04] OK, sweetheart.
The next one, 4.
[20:06] "He shouldn't say and do racist, sexist,
ableist, homophobic and xenophobic things."
[20:11] Oh, good.
So, turn it around.
[20:16] I shouldn't say and do racist, sexist,
ableist, homophobic and xenophobic things.
[20:22] Yeah. That's the best
teacher to walk this world
[20:27] to your thinking.
[20:30] Yeah.
[20:31] That example
goes a long way.
[20:35] It's the opposite
of what you're fearing.
[20:37] OK.
[20:38] Yeah.
[20:40] -Should I do Number 4?
-Mm-hmm.
[20:42] "I need Trump to disappear,
step aside, die or wake the f up."
[20:48] OK. So, if he did all those things,
would you be happy?
[20:54] If that completely changed,
would you be happy?
[20:56] Were you happy
before he even ran?
[21:00] (audience laughs)
[21:03] Happi-ER.
[21:04] Oh, really?
[21:06] It seems like it.
[21:08] Like, comparing
with what moment?
[21:12] Well, like, now, I sometimes
I cry because of this.
[21:15] I wake up in the night.
[21:18] Have you ever cried and--
[21:21] Yeah, but for other reasons,
yeah, yeah.
[21:24] But not
because of the president.
[21:26] (audience laughs)
[21:32] Yeah, OK.
[21:33] (audience laughs)
[21:39] It's true.
[21:41] OK. So, let's try this.
[21:44] "I need Trump to disappear,
step aside, die or wake the f up."
[21:49] Turned around,
"I need my thoughts,
[21:51] my thinking regarding Trump,
his cabinet, I need"--
[21:56] --my thinking to disappear,
[21:59] step aside, die,
[22:02] or wake the f up.
[22:06] (woman in the audience laughs)
[22:08] To wake up--
[22:10] that's the only way out that I know.
I don't know another way out.
[22:15] I mean,
even death isn't a way out,
[22:17] because if you're dead,
you don't know you're out.
[22:20] (audience laughs)
[22:24] There's no way out but in.
That's it.
[22:27] So, we're going to be
pushed to it, pushed to it, pushed to it,
[22:30] as love would have it.
[22:33] So, the next one?
[22:35] "Trump and his supporters
will bring internment camps,
[22:40] concentration camps
or even Armageddon."
[22:44] "My thoughts bring"--
[22:45] My thoughts bring
internment camps
[22:49] concentration camps
or even Armageddon.
[22:52] -Yeah, that's true.
-Yeah.
[22:56] And you can do it
from your couch.
[23:00] You can--
[23:02] just get still,
[23:03] meditate on those questions
and Worksheets like this,
[23:07] and "wake the f up."
[23:09] (audience laughs)
[23:16] I've been trying
to wake the f up
[23:19] and I'm stuck.
[23:20] Well, trying didn't give me
a lot of answers.
[23:25] They came
when I got really still
[23:29] to the questions.
[23:30] I ask,
[23:32] I open,
[23:34] I notice,
[23:36] I realize,
[23:38] and this consciousness shifts.
[23:43] OK. "I don't ever want"--
[23:45] "I don't ever want
to experience the fear and anxiety
[23:49] that Trump and his supporters
have caused me, ever again."
[23:54] His supporters
are the cause of your anxiety.
[23:58] Is it true?
[24:00] They voted, darn.
[24:02] (audience laughs)
[24:09] This is a democracy.
We vote.
[24:14] So, his supporters--
[24:18] are the cause
of your anxiety, is it true?
[24:24] I gotta say "Yes."
[24:26] And what supporters are those?
[24:30] -How many of them have you met?
-Some of them are relatives.
[24:35] (audience and Katie laugh)
[24:43] So, are you
the black sheep in the family,
[24:45] or are they
the black sheep in the family?
[24:48] I don't know.
[24:50] It could be
you just all have a vote.
[24:55] It's a vote
out of your own mind.
[24:58] I got anxiety when someone
in the room yesterday shouted,
[25:02] "He's gonna
Make America Great Again."
[25:04] It's like,
"Oh, they're here!"
[25:06] (audience and Katie laugh)
[25:11] "And I'm gonna do
The Work on Trump,
[25:12] they're gonna attack me
when I leave the room!"
[25:15] (audience and Katie laugh)
[25:19] We all have a vote.
[25:20] If you believed
the thoughts that they believe,
[25:24] you would vote for Trump, too.
You'd have to.
[25:27] Mm-hmm, yeah.
[25:29] So, they're guilty of thinking?
[25:32] Woman in audience: Yes!
[25:33] (audience and Katie laugh)
[25:39] Boy, I tell you, the prejudice
that the left is holding.
[25:43] I don't know--
[25:46] It's true, though.
That's true.
[25:49] But it's OK, because--
[25:51] "We're right."
Right.
[25:53] (audience laughs)
[25:56] You know
what the right is saying?
[25:58] You know,
"Yeah, it's true, but we're right!"
[26:01] You know--
[26:03] Can you stop believing what you believe
in the moment you believe it?
[26:07] Try it. You can't.
[26:09] We're--
[26:11] That's it.
[26:13] We're equal in that.
[26:17] People who voted
on the right
[26:20] have every reason
in the world to do that,
[26:24] just like your vote on the left.
[26:27] I get that.
[26:28] Anything less
than getting that is war.
[26:32] It divides a country.
[26:35] And then
we blame it on Trump.
[26:38] Or "them."
[26:40] My parents grew up
in Germany during World War II.
[26:44] They were little kids.
[26:46] So, when I came to The School,
you did The Work with me about Nazis.
[26:50] Well, I was down there, but--
[26:53] Mmm--
[26:55] I also like to blame Hitler
[26:58] for my fear and anxiety.
[27:00] So, that's what
you're moving forward here.
[27:02] And sweetheart, that's a lot.
[27:05] That's a lot.
[27:06] But it's not more
than you can deal with,
[27:08] because it's yours,
that's your thing.
[27:12] Yeah, it's my thing.
[27:13] I once had a counselor
who said to me,
[27:16] "You're a second-generation
war victim."
[27:19] And I loved that.
Like, someone understands.
[27:25] But, you know, then there's
"Victims are violent people."
[27:30] And that whole thing of, like,
grabbing onto that identity,
[27:37] wanting to be understood
as someone who had these things--
[27:41] Who suffers legitimately.
[27:43] Yeah, yeah.
It's legitimate suffering.
[27:46] It's like,
"I suffer legitimately and--
[27:49] let's see,
I'm still suffering."
[27:53] Suffering is suffering.
[27:55] Yeah.
[27:59] Yeah.
[28:04] Yeah. There's been
this crazy story, like,
[28:07] "If people got it, if they understood
my suffering, then I'd be better,
[28:12] then I'd stop suffering."
[28:16] This is all bullshit.
[28:18] (audience laughs and applauds)
[28:24] (audience cheers)
[28:26] (audience laughs,
applauds and cheers)
[28:40] Good Trump sign.
[28:47] I'm good, Katie.
[28:49] You know, sweetheart,
you have just "Made America Great Again".
[28:52] (audience laughs,
applauds and cheers)
[28:59] Ah, man!
[29:05] What?
[29:06] (inaudible)
[29:07] Ah, Trump help me do it, yep.
[29:10] (laughter)
[29:11] He brought me here.
That's why I'm here.
[29:14] It's the "newclear."
[29:16] The "newclear."
[29:18] The first day I was, like,
what you're talking about?
[29:20] "Your girlfriend not saying
hello in the grocery store?"
[29:23] We've got Trump!
[29:26] You know, like,
everyone should be doing Trump.
[29:29] (audience laughs)
[29:34] I was mad.
[29:35] (laughter)
[29:39] Suffering--
Suffering is--
[29:41] That's what I'm addicted to.
[29:43] The question, "What are your
addictions and compulsions?" That's it.
[29:47] Suffering
and attempts to control.
[29:51] Suffering and attempts
to make that suffering real.
[29:56] Yeah, with this weird idea
that that makes it go away.
[30:01] OK. So--
[30:03] Yes, the lady in the back.
[30:05] Thank you so much
for doing your Work.
[30:07] And I really wish that I was able
to get a lot more relief out of it,
[30:11] but I have not been able to.
[30:13] And I understand, you know,
Donald Trump has a right to run,
[30:18] he has a right
to pursue his ambitions.
[30:21] And my annoyance is--
[30:22] And I have done
the Worksheets,
[30:25] I haven't been able
to find any relief,
[30:26] but my annoyance is that, I feel like,
white women voted in Donald Trump.
[30:30] And, you know, the numbers are, like,
93% of black women voted for Hillary,
[30:34] 68% of Latino women
voted for Hillary,
[30:36] and then 53% of white
women voted for Trump.
[30:40] And it kills me because
I feel like, historically,
[30:42] we've all been taught of,
like, white women being
[30:45] you know, the embodiment
of women's empowerment and freedom
[30:48] and going around and teaching it
and being the face for feminism.
[30:52] And then, the one opportunity
that they have,
[30:54] where their vote was really going
to make a difference, they failed.
[30:58] And it's really one of those things
that annoys me.
[31:00] Also, they succeeded,
their candidate won.
[31:07] It's like--
[31:08] people are not
who we believe them to be
[31:11] just because we believe it.
[31:14] So, who disappointed you?
Them or you?
[31:17] I disappointed myself,
but I still feel like--
[31:23] People aren't who you believe
them to be, necessarily.
[31:26] Yeah.
[31:27] It's just
what you wanted, sweetheart.
[31:31] You know, there's a lot
of fake news out there.
[31:35] And it doesn't matter
in the world if it's true or false.
[31:40] The fake news is run in here.
[31:43] And just a slim,
just a sliver of that--
[31:47] An example is,
[31:49] if your mind were opened
to not believing what you think,
[31:54] then there's no way
you could have been disappointed.
[31:58] When you're less disappointed,
you're more in touch with wisdom.
[32:04] The way you navigate
in the world is much wiser.
[32:08] And you could be right
about the women--
[32:13] It's true.
[32:14] --but you don't know.
[32:16] So, when the vote comes in,
you're not surprised.
[32:20] You're more fascinated, interested,
informed, alive, curious.
[32:27] And that's where
change takes place.
[32:29] Now that you mentioned that,
I'm, like, now, I am kind of curious
[32:31] -as to why the vote--
-There. There.
[32:34] You see,
it happened instantaneously.
[32:36] Just keep doing
your Worksheets, get still.
[32:39] It's like if I had the thought about
"White women dahn-dahn-dahn--", OK?
[32:44] And I believe that.
So, I'm working on that one.
[32:48] OK. So, every time I had connection
or a thought about white women,
[32:54] they're going to show me what's true,
what's not, what's true, what's not.
[32:58] And I learn and grow from it.
I'm informed from it,
[33:01] because I'm not coming
out of prejudice.
[33:06] So, anytime I believe, "he is this,"
"they are that," "she is that,"
[33:11] I am building prejudice.
[33:14] It's that artificial intelligence
that overrides intelligence.
[33:19] It's fake news.
[33:22] -Thank you, Katie.
-You're welcome.
[33:26] This wonderful man
walked up to me this morning
[33:29] and thanked me
for my Work on Trump.
[33:33] Like lots of you
have been doing, and I--
[33:36] I went to hug him and he--
[33:38] went like this and I said,
"Oh, you have something contagious."
[33:41] And he said,
"Well, I'm a Trump supporter."
[33:44] (audience laughs)
[33:47] Where are you, friend?
[33:49] Are you here?
You don't wanna stand up?
[33:52] Mmm--
[33:54] And so I just wanted
to hug him all the more.
[33:58] Mmm--
Such a sweet man.
[34:00] Well, who needs
the hug, him or you?
[34:03] Yeah, me.
[34:04] Me.
[34:05] He told me
why he voted the way he did
[34:08] and it just melted my heart.
So, thank you, friend.
[34:13] Woman in audience: Tell us.
[34:16] Because he thought it would break up
the gridlock, or whatever you call it,
[34:21] the thing in Congress,
the way things are not moving.
[34:24] He felt like that would change,
shake things up, yeah.
[34:28] Yes.
[34:30] Mmm--
(clears throat)
[34:34] I wanted to out myself
as the white female Republican.
[34:40] And I'd be happy
to give you a hug.
[34:42] So, if you go collect that,
if that's--
[34:47] Katie: Yeah.
[34:48] What I got from this,
what I got from what you said was
[34:52] the fear about them and us,
it's always there.
[34:58] I had no idea
how fearful you were of me.
[35:02] I had no idea
that people disliked me so much.
[35:06] It was painful
to find that out, and that--
[35:09] I don't want to be disliked.
[35:12] I don't want you
to dislike me
[35:16] because I'm a Republican.
[35:18] And when I die,
[35:19] it's not going to say that
on my grave, you know?
[35:22] It's going to say
I'm a good person.
[35:23] Or I tried my best, or--
you know?
[35:26] Yes.
[35:27] And I feel sad
that people are so scared of change.
[35:32] And I wanna embrace change.
[35:35] And I want best
for the world and everybody.
[35:39] And I appreciate
and I love these things.
[35:42] I've been to three of them
[35:43] and I'd never talked,
and I was always afraid,
[35:45] but oh, my God,
now I'm outed, you know,
[35:49] as the Republican white girl.
[35:51] So--
[35:53] Hey!
[35:55] Thank you.
[35:56] (audience applauds)
[36:07] I've never really--
[36:11] thought about
politics very much.
[36:13] When I thought I did,
[36:16] it was more of just
what my parents were regurgitating.
[36:19] Trump
[36:21] is only what I believe
him to be in my head.
[36:24] I don't know who he is.
[36:27] I had a best friend
who introduced me to The Work,
[36:32] and I'm 23,
[36:34] and I get to free myself
from my thoughts.
[36:38] I'm not seeing Trump.
[36:41] And maybe I will never see him,
we will never know.
[36:46] But that doesn't matter.
[36:48] I'd rather tear
that piece of paper up
[36:51] than believe
that it's Trump.
[36:55] Or my mom.
[36:56] Or my dad.
[36:58] Or the boy who incited
the entire class
[37:01] to kick soccer balls
at me in eighth grade.
[37:04] You can kick a soccer ball
and hit me in the face and break my nose.
[37:08] All I'll need is a surgery.
[37:12] That's all.